It is the Real
Indonesian’s Culture
By: Khoirul Rohman
INDONESIA, my beloved country is consisted of thousands beautiful islands,
vary perspectives of citizens, delicious foods to eat, wonderful views to enjoy,
and many others attractive things to see. Among them all, there is this one most exciting culture that already
existed in this country from
many years ago until now. That culture is known by the name of “NONGKRONG”
which literally means sitting
around and doing absolutely nothing. In other words, it actually has a meaning of hanging out with friends to talk about anything in a particular place with a
feeling of “anyone can join without any fear”. Anyone can join when people
do this Nongkrong. People across Indonesia should experience the same feeling when they do Nongkrong. They feel the unity, the equality
among people, the feeling without
any conflict, and the mutual feeling of peace.
What Indonesian does when they do Nongkrong? Simple thing they have when
they do Nongkrong is drinking
a cup of coffee or tea with some snacks. During that time they talk about
anything: their life or a little joke after they have a hard day in their office that eventually will become an amusing entertainment. This becomes a cheap tourism for
people who need entertainment to refresh their mind. Their mind will be
refreshed by the laughter and the relaxing atmosphere among their friends.
Inside those simple things during “NONGKRONG”,
there is a deeper meaning behind
this activity. It is the exchange, the sharing and gaining of knowledge. Here
is the rule, “NONGKRONG” involves at least 2 until 4 people.
Each person will bring a piece of information
that they have got from their life and experience. They will share the
information from one to another. Thus,
the knowledge of each person will eventually
be increased because of this activity
of “NONGKRONG”.
People will think about the difference between “NONGKRONG” that Indonesian have and the
hanging-out that other
countries have. The big difference between them is the feeling of the
participant of the activity.
People do hang-out because
they want to have something to
eat or just to meet their
friends. In contrary with this,
Indonesian, when they are doing “NONGKRONG”,
usually feel the dominant
feeling of a closer
relationship with people around them, which lead to a deeper unity. They usually laugh without fear and border. They are not thinking who they are
laughing with. But they are thinking what a great things they will get from the
“NONGKRONG”.
From this culture, Indonesian’s heroes like
Ir. Soekarno and Mohammad Hatta started to bring Indonesia to its independence day
in the past. They had
“NONGKRONG” to discuss about this celebration.
This is the evidence that
this culture had already
existed long time ago in Indonesia.
From this we learnt that
people can actually use “NONGKRONG” to create a great change. It is clearly seen from what Indonesian heroes has started years ago. This is
due to the culture of “NONGKRONG” that gives a greater power of unity inside. People in
the past had also used “NONGKRONG” to create other cultures in Indonesia that are famous worldwide such as Tari Pendet from Bali, Reog Ponorogo
from Ponorogo, and Batik Tulis.
From that
example, the youth nowadays can use the Indonesia’s own style of hanging-out and the power of a good unity among them to bring world into peace. They can bring more
peace when they have “NONGKRONG” and
bring more equality among them. They can be the ones who spread the culture of “NONGKRONG” worldwide so that everyone
can have the luxury of laughing without fear.
What I am proud
of Indonesian culture is not only the culture of “NONGKRONG”, but also the culture of Indonesian to have a good
relationship with anyone inside and outside of this country, that can be seen
from the culture of “NONGKRONG”. This
culture should be continued by the young people of every single part of this
world to have a more peaceful
world of living. I am proud of Indonesia; I am proud of the smile of Indonesia.
